Hi Reader,
I have so many parents who come to me because they are trying to have a VBAC.
I want to offer you something.
If you want a VBAC, try saying, "I'm planning a VBAC" or "I will labor after a cesarean" or even "I'm going to have a VBAC" rather than "I'm going to try."
Do you feel the slight difference in those statements?
The first three hold intention. Power. Strength. Clarity.
The person saying them is someone who knows what they want.
And every time that person says those words, their body hears those words.
Your heart hears those words.
"I'm going to have a VBAC."
What would it feel like to say that phrase every day?
To see yourself comfortably managing those contractions?
Moving and swaying as your body needs?
Or maybe, choosing an epidural because that is what you need at the time?
To allow yourself to envision what that moment of birth would feel like?
To pull your slippery baby up and onto your chest?
To look into their eyes for the very first time?
To smell their sweet little head?
To feel the warmth of their body against yours?
"I'm going to have a VBAC."
What does this statement tell your body? Your heart?
How does it frame the time between now to when you push your baby into the world?
What would it feel like to calmly and confidently claim this future for you?
To set this intention and spend the time now to that last contraction bathed in the peace and certainty of this truth?
If you are like how I was after my cesarean... I wanted a VBAC, but I also wanted to protect my heart.
I wanted to cover my bases.
I didn't want to be completely shattered if I had another cesarean.
Here's what I want you to hear: It is 100% possible for you to say "I'm going to have a VBAC" and also be ok if you have another cesarean.
How?
Learn the facts.
This is the single most powerful thing you can do to boost your VBAC odds.
Things like:
Learning the facts gives you the power and agency to do everything you can to have a VBAC.
From who you hire as your provider to where you birth to all the choices you make in between.
Learning the facts also gives you complete clarity on what you can and can't control.
So you know exactly when to exercise your power and when to save your energy and surrender.
It is through these two new perspectives will you develop a deeper and true empathy for yourself.
In the event that you choose to have a repeat cesarean, you will know, in your heart, that you did everything you could.
And now, despite how challenging and disappointing that moment may be, it is time to acknowledge all the choices you made, and where those choices, coupled with chance and luck which is always at play with birth, brought you.
To focus on the power of the choices you made while you process however you feel about your repeat cesarean.
This is the power of the facts.
Your true healing.
Your true power.
No matter how your birth plays out.
This is why I do this work.
The single best way to learn the facts is my signature program for parents "The Truth About VBAC™ for Families."
This course is everything I wish I knew after my cesarean 19 years ago and all the best information I have compiled since I founded VBAC Facts® 15 years ago.
It covers everything I discuss above and more.
Plus, through today, Friday June 30th at 4pm PST, you can save $50 when you purchase "The Truth About VBAC™ for Families" and a 60 minute one-on-one face-to-face consulting call with me!
This call is your time to use how you want.
We can talk about your cesarean.
Your desires for your next birth.
Sort through whether you want a VBAC, or if maybe a repeat cesarean is a better choice for you.
How to talk to your family or partner about your choices.
Or maybe you have questions about the medical evidence or something that was covered in "The Truth About VBAC™ for Families."
It's your time to be fully supported by the knowledge and experience I have as a VBAC subject matter expert as well as the journey I have walked as a VBAC mother.
If this sounds like a fit for you, click here to check out.
If you want to learn more about "The Truth About VBAC™ for Families," click here.
This discount expires today, Friday June 30th, at 4pm PST, so grab your spot now.
Much love,
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Jen Kamel
VBAC Facts® Founder
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Let me ask you another question:
Are you a birth professional who would like to confidently support families planning VBACs while giving them the most accurate, up-to-date information?
How about those pregnant after a cesarean in larger bodies?
Facing induction?
With two or more prior cesareans?
Considering an external cephalic version?
Navigating fetal monitoring options?
With single vs dual layer suturing?
After a classical, T, or J cesarean?
What would it feel like to express the available evidence on these topics and more to families in a way that didn’t create fear and yet was comprehensive and easy to understand?
How would greater knowledge of the evidence change your energy in the room?
How you show up?
Your ability to truly support women and birthing people no matter what choice they made?
After attending our trainings within VBAC Facts® professional membership, you will be able to calmly and clearly explain the risks and benefits to your clients with honesty and integrity so they can make truly informed decisions.
And, if you don’t know the answer, membership also gives you access to me.
Reach out via our Facebook group and get your question answered by me personally!
But what would it feel like to have a full 60-minutes face-to-face with me to talk through whatever VBAC issue you face?
Perhaps you want to review your informed consent process?
Debrief an adverse outcome?
Audit your VBAC policy?
Or get all those random VBAC questions compiling in your brain answered once and for all?
You can get immediate clarity on the evidence, national guidelines, informed consent best practices, hospital VBAC policy trends, accreta, uterine rupture… whatever is on your mind.
If you want to provide your VBAC clients with authentic support, and start chipping away at whatever fear or apprehension that may be holding you back, this is the time to take action.
Through today, June 30th, at 4pm PST, you will be able to save $50 and experience the best of both worlds:
If you are called to provide the best support, the most accurate information, and stand in integrity, then register for this bundle today and make it happen.
This is your opportunity to arm your clients with the most current, evidence based information to help them navigate the system and truly understand their options.
Get started at https://vbacfacts.com/membership and use coupon code SAVE50.
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